Let's talk compliance vs cooperation. Two words that seem like synonyms but are actually VERY different concepts. The first is rooted in power and control dynamics while the second is rooted in connection dynamics. In parenting, compliance is about the parent's authority being central and the child's will or needs or voice being relinquished to the parent's authority. Compliance is submission. Many people fall into the compliance trap because they were raised in it. "I respected my parents, now